In this running life and sky touching price crisis, each person has been adopting the means of family planning. It is necessary to follow the rule of family planning. A married couple should think before begetting a child what the right time is to beget a child. Both husband and wife have to think about the numbers of children so that they may nurture properly and give education them in good schools. Besides it, they should have full knowledge about the birth of second child. Here it means to say that what should be the gap of the birth of two children.
Balance of everything has been disbalanced due to increasing population. Balance of everything whether it is related to population or atmosphere is not in good condition. India is on second position in the matter of population. Approximately 50 children take birth in one minute in India. India has crossed the number of hundred of million. If the condition does not changed, India will get the position of number one in the reference of population.
Due to increasing population, men are unemployed and students are not getting admission in school colleges. There are uncountable lines all around. Generally, ‘you are in line’ is written on the notice board. Neither men have homes to live nor they have meal because of excessive population. There was crowd all around. There is crowd in hospitals because several diseases have taking people in its grips.
Some causes have been given below which are responsible for excessive population:-
- Even today, several people are illiterate in India. Such people think that children are GOD gifted. With this thinking, they keep on giving birth children.
- In India, a boy is considered the pivot of family. The boy advances the generation of his family. People of this thinking keep on begetting children. Several girl babies take birth in the hope of a boy baby. Parents keep on giving birth children until boy takes birth.
- People have not has sufficient knowledge about the family planning means. Indians think that vasectomy can destroy their sexual power and they do not adopt vasectomy. Women fear in adopting an operation by which child does not take birth. They fear that they will get too much weakness. Fear of another disease checks them to adopt operation.
- To end such kind of fear from the mind of men and women, full knowledge about family planning should be given to them and goodness of family planning should be told them. Each man should be literate. We should tell them that a big family is the cause of several kinds of difficulties and problems. Here some means of family planning have been given below. By adopting such means, a woman will not become pregnant. A doubt of pregnancy disappears by root if some methods adopted by men and woman.
Inner sexual intercourse:-
- In this kind of sexual intercourse, when a man makes sexual intercourse with his wife, he should draw his penis from the vagina before ejaculation of semen. The semen should not reach into the vagina at any rate. Doubt of pregnancy disappears if it is done.
- If semen reaches into the vagina after ejaculation, the woman should stand in erect position. The woman should urinate soon. Besides it, semen should be removed from the vagina. In this way, semen will not enter into the uterus.
Safe period is the period in which a man should not make sexual relation with a woman when there is doubt of meeting of man’s sperms and woman’s ovum. For it, consult to qualified doctor because a doctor can tell the day when sperms of man meet with the ovum of woman after knowing the date of menses of woman. There is a doubt of conceiving if sexual relation is established during this period. Besides these days, both man and woman can establish sexual relation without any fear and can take much sexual pleasure.
Condom is a cheap and easily available menas for man to avoid from conception. Condom is a kind of latex covering. A man covers the penis with condom. He does not feel the presence of anything on the penis. Condom covers the penis completely because of which semen of the man does not meet with the ovum of woman. In this way, fear of conception disappears.
There are two kinds of condoms. First is plain and equal at the top and back portion. Second kind of condom is quite different from the first. Its frontal portion is little bit narrow than the root side. There is cap at its top side. When a man ejaculates during sexual intercourse, semen gathers inside the condom and not in the vagina.
Pills for birth control:-
Birth control pills are good and easily available method to avoid conception. These pills are used by women. Such pills are known by the name of Mala-D. Such pills are given free of cost at several health centers. Such pills are made with hormones and ovum does not reach near about the uterus in matured stage if these medicines are taken by women. If a woman wants to conceive, she should stop the use of such pills. Only one pill is taken regularly. If a woman forgets about its use one day, she can take it on the second day.
Loop is also a good method for woman to avoid conception. It is used by a woman after the birth of one child if she does not want another child for 2-3 years. One thing should be remembered here that it should be adopted in the observance of a well skilled nurse.
Copper T is a method for birth control like loop. It is situated on the uterus of a woman. It is called copper T in English language. There are two wires of copper at its top. These wires enhance the capacity of birth control.
Check pesari: -
Check pesri is a good method for birth control. It is used by women. It resemblances to a cap and it is called douche too. A woman should get make it by checking her vagina by a gynecologist. It is available in the sizes of 50, 60 and 100 numbers.
Cervical cap is available in the sizes of 0, 1, 2, 3 numbers. If one woman wants to adopt both the kinds of pesries, she should wash her bladder properly after urinating. Some women wear it in sitting position and some in half-lying condition. Besides it, some women wear it by lying flat on bed. Wearing it depends on the easiness of a woman. It should never be worn before husband because it affects on a man psychologically.
A kind of jelly or anti- sperm cream should be applied over it before wearing it. There is no need to draw out it in the night after sexual intercourse. It can be drawn out in the morning without fear. In the beginning, a woman needs a gynecologist to wear it but after sometime she becomes experts when she becomes habitual it. Wearing it is very easy. For it, the woman should sit on her both legs and keep to the bottom of her vagina on her feet.
At this time, the mouth of uterus comes towards below and muscles near about the vagina stretch. Thereafter, the woman should apply jelly on the pesri and then with the help of first finger the pesri should be inserted towards upwardly into the vagina in this way that the pesri may adjust with both the walls of the vagina. The woman should check whether the pesri is fit or not by inserting her first finger into the vagina.
When you want to draw the pesri, the woman should wash her vagina properly. The pesri also should be washed properly after drawing it from the vagina. Thereafter, mop it with the help of dry cloth and keep into a box by sprinkling birth control powder. Powder should be sprinkled on it before its use again. The pesri can be drawn in the same way as it was adopted into the vagina.
Besides it, cream, powder and pills with foam are also used for birth control. These are put into the vagina before sexual intercourse.
Vasectomy is a minor operation to avoid conception. The doctor cuts the artery that carries semen is cut off. The semen does not contain sperms, which comes out after ejaculation. Here it means to say that semen becomes without sperm. If there is no sperm in the semen, it will not meet with the ovum of the woman. A man can establish sexual intercourse like before and he can get sexual satisfaction.
Vasectomy is also done on woman tot like man. It is a minor operation. In it, a doctor cuts the tube of ovum. It is done so that ovum may not reach on a place where it meet with the sperm after coming out from the ovary. Vasectomy is a permanent method to avoid conception. This should be adopted after giving birth to children and both husband and wife should be ready to adopt it.
Obstruction during sexual intercourse:-
Obstruction during sexual intercourse is not a successful formula to avoid pregnancy. In it the man drags out his penis from the vagina of woman at the time of ejaculation. There is a doubt of pregnancy in this situation because sometimes there are 1-2 drops of semen in the excretion secreted from the Cowper gland which may contain sperms. None can refuse to the doubt of conception in this situation.
Information: Several women mostly in rural areas wash their vagina with soap water to remain far from pregnancy but this is not a safe formula to avoid conception because sperms enter into the uterus of the woman after ejaculation and soap water cannot clean that portion. Besides it, sperms cannot be cleaned with every kind of soap and the woman suffers only from inflammation in sex organs.
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